Monday, March 14, 2011

Choosing a midwife

Today is a great day! Not only have some of the food aversions subsided (credit, once again, goes to spearmint essential oil), I also scheduled an appointment with a certified nurse midwife. After lots of contemplation and research, I came to the conclusion that this is the best choice for my prenatal care and labor/delivery. I'm really happy with this decision.

Originally, I fully intended to go the traditional obstetrician route. After our first appointment, though, Carl and I were uncomfortable with my doctor. She was dismissive regarding our questions and I got the impression that she wasn't really interested in getting to know Carl and me -- and that might be OK for some people, but it isn't right for us (we prefer open, collaborative relationships with our health care providers). I thought about it for two weeks before I decided to move on.

This, of course, left me with a big decision. Who do I see instead? I read profiles of just about every single doctor affiliated with the hospital we've chosen for our delivery. Whenever I thought I found someone who might work, I discovered something that told me otherwise. Finally, I called the clinic I used to go to for preventive care, prior to getting pregnant. I always really liked the clinic and my doctor there was super nice, but she had gotten so busy. For the past two years, I felt like a number. Still, I trusted her -- and I wondered if she might be the best choice after all. After a long chat with an admin at the clinic, it became clear that wasn't the one. However, the admin recommended two other doctors and then asked "have you considered a midwife?"

I had not, so I asked the admin to explain the benefits and the differences. I was sold. Our first appointment is April 8th.

2 comments:

  1. I'm looking into the whole doc vs midwife thing right now. I'm assuming you're still up in Portland, and this is where your midwife is?

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  2. Hi Stephanie! Yes, still in Portland. I went to Women Healthcare Associates and had a great experience.

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